Nor is life easy.
However, you can find people you feel safe with.
I’m not here to tell you how to do that other than being open to the possibility.
There are things that terrify, frustrate and irritate us. It’s simply going to happen. I certainly believe in reaching the light at the other end of the tunnel.
All you can do is try to find solutions. Look for answers, trust yourself and when you can support others do it.