Do you feel good when you’re angry?
If you answered yes, you’re deluding yourself.
Notice what makes ‘news’. War. War, fighting, aggression, it’s the main thing I disagree with Andrew Tate on, who says to have pain for breakfast.
Neh, not getting on board with that. Have gratitude for breakfast, it makes you more present.
The truth is, when you’re fighting, who or what are you fighting against? Reality usually.
I am not a hippie-type saying make love not war but I am saying that there is a difference between competition and aggression. Everyone losses with the latter and everyone benefits from the former. Competition means the most gifted rise to the top and create benefits for all (innovation, employment, wealth, freedom, etc.) whereas aggression means the tyrannical rise to the top (destruction, death, poverty, imprisonment).
Last night, my boyfriend surprise visited me by driving over to my neighbourhood after he had a work do. Magical! Would I have enjoyed it if I were stressed or angry or ungrateful? No. I would not have.
In being peaceful, I could appreciate him, I could listen to him, I could go with the flow and have, as we both did, a sweet, tender and happy time.
We know that war never works in the end.
The choice is yours.