People get into such a whizz about things they enjoy and don’t enjoy.
We feel bad for liking particular things, we judge ourselves for thinking we should and shouldn’t do things.
I had a mental shift when I heard (can’t remember who) saying stop focusing on improving your weaknesses and start investing in your strengths.
Every single one of us is unique.
We each of us has a unique combination of likes, dislikes, tastes and preferences. All good.
Am I talking about penchants for violence or for drugs, or for alcohol? No, obviously not. I’m talking about those things that you did from when you were a child an start you still enjoy today.
Art
Music
Sports
Walking
Photography
Etc. Etc. You get the idea.
Stop trying to mould yourself into something you’re not. There are things that are just irritating and sometimes you have to deal with them. Make the focus what you love, get stronger at the things you enjoy and the rest of life sorts itself out.