Growing up, my sister and I did a lot of dancing together, we made videos and in later years, even entered national competitions.
We danced Ceroc (a modern jive dance that, I believe, originated in Australia called Le Roc). We went to many classes where you learn the moves and when it comes to the end of the lesson, you ‘freestyle’.
We auditioned for a BBC show and had to put together a video. A cousin of ours asked,
“Do you choreograph it together?”
My sister replied, “No, he makes it up, I just follow.”
As a consequence, we developed a style, because we trust each other, a signature way of dancing and it made me think that it’s a great aim to life to have your own signature.
Are you bold?
Quirky?
Unapologetic?
Bit of a nerd?
Outrageous, flamboyant?
It’s your life, you cannot change other people, discussion often is a waste of time. Carry yourself with confidence, speak the truth and do life your own unique way.