The need to speak is strong in all of us.
There is so much to say.
We often fell left out, unheard, irrelevant.
But is it true? You have to ask yourself this!
Remember, everything is a mirror. If you need listening to, others do as well. Do you understand?
The truth is, you know what you think. You think it all day, every day.
The great advantage of listening, actually listening, is your nearest and dearest, in fact total strangers too, will likely feed back issues and problems and challenges they have that will match your own and when you think to yourself “how would I solve this?”, you ultimate get the answers you need.
Believe me, I’ve overthought and over-analysed so much! Relentlessly, that it’s been a very covert form of procrastination.
Your need to speak is because you want to be accepted by others. Wrong way to start. Start accepting yourself, let go of what you couldn’t change or influence and be there for people.
That generous energy will automatically transform you.