I friend commented on a tweet of mine.
It got me thinking that we’re so obsessed with the procedure, that we forget the outcomes.
A long standing friend of my sister’s is splitting with her boyfriend with whom she has a child. Nothing serious or catastrophic has happened between them and not for a second will they think of their son. It absolutely baffles me.
I believe that people parrot advice because they’ve heard it so many times but don’t necessarily thing about how effective the advice is.
Having had a glowing endorsement from a potential coaching client, I realise the key is doing your own thinking. It’s not very common, I have to say. Most people, from what I observe, do what they’re told.
Looking at the results (of which you have many) means you have your eyes open.