Wanting plain sailing are we?
Wanting a nice, easy ride of things?
It’s all just going to go smoothly and easily?
Neh! We know that’s not the truth.
Whatever you pick, all the shit you’ve been avoiding is all going to erupt from every orifice, smack you in the face, make you scream and cry and force you to feel useless in every way for good measure.
But it’s where a little subtlety really does help.
People say ‘get angry’. No, no, no, no, no. That’s really damaging.
Learn to distinguish between wanting to act out your anger (bad) and accepting you feel anger (good) and resolve it, release it. How? Channel it into great work.
What happens when your favourite movie character gets angry? No, seriously? Things blow up, get destroyed, lots and lots of time wasted picking up the pieces.
Integrity is your ally. Things are going to be messy, yes, you’ll bitch that you’ve wasted time but we get it done and the more you get the work done, the more you discover that getting focused and fulfilled is far better than whining like a child.
You’re an adult now and whatever you pick, you can make it chaotic or your can make it a success.
Your call, my friend……