We each have our favourite people we like to watch. We are imbued with a sense of satisfaction and vindication when we listen to them.
I believe it can be traced to a couple of traits that work particularly well together.
One, passion. They are highly enthused by whatever topic, they speak with their entire body, you can see their face animated, they are direct.
Two, solidity – they do not care what people think about them. They will not be shaken from their perch. It’s exceptionally attractive to encounter people who don’t give a flying fuck about what others think of them. Alluring!
What if, instead of focusing all your attention and energy on them, you did that for yourself?
Exciting thought, isn’t it!