Wherever you go, whoever you talk with, you’ll realise, despite protestations, people don’t really know what they’re doing.
They don’t have all the answers.
They have wildly different belief systems
They do different things to relieve the stress.
People run podcasts, they will have their one-size-fits-all philosophy then why bother examining opposing viewpoints at all? Answers. There are gaps in our theories (and usually our arguments are self-referential.
I recently met a chap named Patrick and he runs a discord server for gay/bi men to get together and have fun. I’m an enthusiastic partaker because it’s been a YEAR since I’ve had any action. Yes, it’s all virtual, yes, you may have whatever opinion you wish but we pretend that man don’t wank. They do, they just don’t talk about it.
I, in fact, thought about starting a separate account to talk about this stuff but let’s allow it to all hang out. The amount of great conversations I’ve had in this server is incredible, I swear it.
Fear
Shame
Embarrassment
They’re all higher on people’s lists than honesty.
Time to change that? I’ll leave that with you.