Are you constantly fighting the way things are?
Are you a perfectionist?
Are you constantly wanting to change everything and everyone?
Stress and misery comes from not being able to accept things the way they are. Does this terrify you?
When I’ve observed how people react to ‘acceptance’, it’s like you’re telling them that everything is set in concrete, immovable, with no room for growth.
Exact opposite my friend.
Yesterday, I blogged and videoed about delusion. Everybody wanting everything to go the way they believe things should be.
It’s arrogant, it’s hubristic. There’s no humility in everything. Remembering though, the reason you believe what you believe and want everything to be ‘just so’ will be for very good reasons. You and I both want some sense of structure and security. Don’t we also want adventure too?
Oh yes!
Truth is, there is so much we can’t control, this doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Releasing ‘what is’ to the universe means you can focus on the things you love, that you CAN change and that you can have powerful and grounded confidence.
Let’s develop a character of excellence. Let’s do it together.
Go boldly in the world and do it with style and grace.