I had the bizarrest dream experience last night! I absolutely swear this is the truth.
In the dream, I was struck by a friend’s father with a metre rule and when I woke up I could feel the burning sensation on my leg where he had impacted me in the dream. No word of a lie!
It has worn off now but, you’ll understand, I felt very disturbed and had no idea what was going on. I still don’t.
There’s so much we don’t know, even about things that have happened to us. What is the actual nature of the world and reality, it’s so massive.
We bury.
We deny.
We ignore.
But it’s all still there and we are dealing and impacted by our experiences whether we like it or not.
It’s the same with decisions. You are left with the consequences, your character is shaped by the things you do, your footprint is left in many places and you have to live with it.
I am not advocating regret. Regret is a pointless ghost because what’s happened has happened. Simple, unavoidable.
Shape a life you’re proud of.