– Your energy
– Your influence
– Your endeavours
They are all so powerful! Immensely.
I have no regrets. Going through everything I have, I have gained great resilience and strength, wisdom too!
One thing I know I will be doing from now on is to retain as much of my authority and decision-making to things that benefit me AND those around me.
I will no longer say “yes” when my heart and mind say “no”.
I made a new friend shortly after moving back to my home town and we’ve been chatting off and on, including last night. He invited me out for lunch today but I said no, preferring to meet next week. I will not rush into things, I will trust my instincts and I will observe what emotions come up so I can learn from them.
For whatever reasons, I feel tremendous guilt when I act in my own interest. It’s something I am wholeheartedly working on. Embracing my decisions is improving my life – it means decisions become easier and I can get on with my day mentally and emotional unencumbered.
The reality is this – you have to put the power back in your own hands, knowing full well that no one will do it for you. People, very often, are selfish because that’s how most of us have been taught that way. It’s not a judgemental thing to say, you can it all the time.
Observe and move on.
Be only around people you can express yourself freely with. Be radical about it and stand your ground in all aspects.
The power is already in your hands.
Use it.