Painful, yes.
Humbling, yes.
Revealing, definitely.
There’s any number of events in our lives that we replay and wish hadn’t happened. We feel embarrassed by them, plagued. Doesn’t it all feel so unnecessary?!
Truth is though, they are all learning experiences and, for the most part, they can easily be relegated to the dustbin of history – to make you realise that they didn’t really touch or you make it any less difficult to do what you really want to do, living your own life.
Agony is replaying things imagining they could have been any different than reality. It’s all happened.
Are you living regretfully and stunting your own growth?
Are you living freely and absorbing the knocks like a man?