We expect.
We desire.
We’re desperate for the attention.
We want the validation.
And the truth is, we want someone else to make the decisions for us. We want a plan, a spreadsheet, the perfect route to where we’re going.
But there’s something missing, isn’t there! What is it?
Certainty?
Confidence?
No, it’s not those is it?
Adventure.
But you might look stupid.
You might not get it ‘right’! Agggggh!
But observe people peopling all over the place. They do stuff (and almost certainly they are worrying too).
We leave ‘em to it and so can you.
Do it for yourself – be proactive, have a jolly old time! It’s all an experiment and everyone is making it up as they go along. It’s how it works.