Many quote that honesty is the best policy but they don’t live it. People actually hate honesty. They’re not equipped to deal with it.
Numerous people tweet,
Harsh Trush: XYZ but it’s never anything really controversial, just something blatantly obvious. It’s an engagement tactic. Yesterday, I replied to such a tweet saying Harsh Truth: tweets that start with Harsh Truth are really fucking boring. And they are.
I am convinced that the vast majority of small living or imprisonment is self-inflicted. Hardly anybody goes to real prison, they’re just stuck in their own minds and their hearts.
Try and pin anyone down on anything definitive, they vanish. In a cloud of smoke, they disappear and the conversation’s over. I see it all the time.
So when something slightly irritating happens, I stress less and less about it because it won’t make a difference to sorting the situation out. E.g. My bathroom light isn’t working right now, the cord to switch it on isn’t engaging but, when I was growing up, this will have caused such consternation and stress, I learned to go out of my body to deal with drama.
It’s your choice how you live life, what I recommend? Solutions sought in as peaceful a way as possible. That’s my aim.