If I had been given £1 every time I have heard this question asked, I would be a very rich man by now.
Sorry though friends, people ask the wrong questions.
When you hear someone ask “can I trust you?”, they’re not asking about your trustworthiness, it’s code……for will you AGREE with them.
Here’s why.
The way most people live is outside in, they believe there are external forces responsible for their lives, they search out rather than look in for the inspiration they need. They also believe that the world is someone else’s fault or job to deal with.
Nope.
I will offer this small defence that people also ask this question because they are frightened of the outcomes of their actions and interactions. They lack self-belief because they focus on other peoples’ movements.
Learn to trust yourself.