Embrace the mess of it all.
Last night I found myself crying at a Sex And The City episode, again. It’s where Carrie tells Aidan that she’s cheated on him. It always gets me.
It’s only a few months since I split with my boyfriend. I am not a ‘should have’ kind of man but I am able to take responsibility for the fact that I could have ended things with him far sooner because all the red flags were there right from the start.
Life is not neat and tidy, it is messy. Accept it.
When starting anything new, acknowledge and accept that it will not be perfect, you’ll have to rummage around in the dark a bit, find out where the ground lays and go with it!