We all like to believe we’re these together people, with everything sorted out, we know the reality is quite different.
I know I’ve been very rigid, perfectionistic too, trying to squeeze myself into tight spots that do not suit me at all.
Beware “making the best of things” – it usually means you’re doing things so wholly inauthentic to you.
And don’t you feel pulled? In so many directions, trying to find where to place yourself?
This kind of business, that kind of diet, this sort of exercise, morning person, night owl.
Rather than a prix-fix menu, see things as a buffet. You get to decide your parameters, you get to decide your boundaries. You get to decide what works.
If people object to you doing things differently (at the same time as doing them no harm), that is wholly and solely their business.
Play!