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THE DESIRE TO CHANGE OTHERS. – Martin Pavey

THE DESIRE TO CHANGE OTHERS.

I see it all the time.

“Why aren’t they doing it?”

“Why don’t they want to change their lives?”

“What’s WRONG with them?”

And the judgement. Phrases like,

“Spoiled brat” (heard that said this morning!)

“Losers.”

To be honest, I have done it myself calling people “NPCs”.

My mission is simple.

Yes, I use hard hitting language and what sound like commands every now and then but I am here to speak to you, the man who’s decided to take action. I have no interest in or desire to change those that aren’t willing to do it.

PLUS! There are many reasons why people don’t throw themselves in, perfectly valid reasons.

Fear

Lack of Self-Belief

Not willing to sacrifice their current conditioning.

If you’re building a business, stop wasting your time trying to convince vegetarians to be lions. You will not do it and it isn’t your place to dictate what others should do.

I market myself with personality, humour and a genuine desire to connect with men who want to take a step out and really go for it. It’s incredibly simple. 

I have spent years, literally years, trying to divine and decipher other peoples’ behaviour, totally fucking pointless.

You don’t need to convince people, nor try to change them, even contemplate understanding them. You don’t know them and they don’t know you.

Speak authentically with the true desire to be of service, network, get into the comments sections of wherever you are on Social Media, send messages, receive messages and get conversations going.

The right people are out there and waiting, focus solely on what you do and what you can do to help them help themselves.