There are any number of reasons why you’ve developed the thought traps and resistant behaviours you have. They were protection when you very, very, very young.
Look at the average person online, what they’re talking about, how they’re talking and you’ll see it’s reactive, it’s passive, there’s a lack of personal accountability. It takes a bold leap to achieve self-mastery.
What got you here, pleasing various people, will not get you to where you want to go. It won’t.
You have to start trusting yourself.
You have to start believing in yourself.
You have to value what you have to offer.
To this point, no matter how old you are, you’ve largely been given instructions and you’ve followed.
A leader this does not make. And a leader doesn’t have to be this massive, earth-shattering thing no, no. It just means you lead where your inclinations, abilities and heart lead you. YOU. What you’ve always wanted.
Learn to remember what you dreamt of before you tried to fit in. That’s the real you.